I share some thoughts about the relationship between Wicca and sex, and the role that sex does and does not play in Wicca. The three main points I make:
- Sex is never, ever a requirement in the Gardnerian Tradition. Anyone who says differently is a predator.
- Our bodies are holy, and so are the things we choose to do with them. There is nothing inherently shameful or bad about sex, and people should feel empowered to have sex or not have sex as they choose.
- Sex is powerful, and that power can be used for magic if we choose. If people choose to use sex as a means of raising power for a spell, they have every right to do so, so long as (see point #1) no one is ever pressured into a sexual situation in magic.