Before you read this, caveat lector: I am feeling rather silly today. I am sitting in my apartment in pajama bottoms and a sweatshirt, eating Greek yoghurt out of the carton and spinning around in my chair lip synching Taylor Swift’s newest single. And as I sit here in this strange world-between-the-worlds, it seems to me that the following blog post is a good idea. Tomorrow, in the cold light of day, it may prove to have been exactly the opposite.
Tarot is many beautiful, powerful, terrible things. It’s a trick-taking card game for gambling nobles developed in late medieval Italy. It’s a symbolic compendium of the great archetypes of the human soul. It’s a spiritual guide, a divinatory tool, an astrological calendar, and (for some people) a way to connect with deities or the spirits of the dead. All of these things are deeply meaningful and poetic.
However, Tarot can also sometimes beย annoying. This comes from two directions. On one side, every now and then the cards just don’t say what we want them to, or even don’t say anything at all. Maybe we do a spread and we find out that the tensions we’ve been having at work areย not, in fact, our boss’s fault, but are caused by our own whiny self-indulgence. Whoops! Or, as has happened to every great Tarot reader over the course of human history (and even to a couple of the mediocre ones), we turn up the cards and there is just no common thread, no story present in their images. We’re left blind and dumb.
The other sense in which Tarot can be annoying is the subject of this post, and it comes not from the cards but from the people asking the questions. Many of the questions I’m asked to read for in Tarot are wonderful, open-ended, and allow my querents to gain a lot of insight about their lives, but half as many again leave me gnashing my teeth in frustration and wishing I could raise my hand like a petulant Hermione Granger and protest, “But that’s not how it works!”
And so I present to you, dearest reader of mine, without the slightest intent of demeaning or devaluing all of the wonderful spiritual work of which Tarot is capable, a satirical list of the most common and most irksome questions I’ve encountered over the course of my Tarot-reading life. Please don’t stone me to death over this list. It’s meant to be funny.
1. Is he the one?
2. What do you mean, “It looks like a toxic co-dependent relationship”? Is he the one or isn’t he?
3. How can I make a lot of money very quickly and without any effort?
4. Hang on a second. I went to another Tarot reader andย she said he’s the one. What gives?
5. Going back to the money thing. What are the winning numbers for the Powerball jackpot?
6. My friend’s half Gypsy and three-seventeenths Native American, and she says there’s a curse on me because of my ex-girlfriend’s karma from a past life where we were both jackrabbits. Can you tell me how to remove the curse?
7. How am I going to die?
8. Why has my dream of becoming a world-class pogo-stick stuntman in a yellow leotard not made me as instantly rich and famous as I had expected it would?
9. So I’m, like, not into the “occult” or anything, but I’ve always just had this, like, Really Profound Connection to wolves and I had a dream about a wolf last night and I think it might be my Spirit Animalโข.
10. How much should I invest in this new tech startup?
11.ย Okay, I know I already asked you this, but I justย really feel like he’s the one. He is, isn’t he?
12.ย So my brother’s girlfriend caught him cheating on her with her best friend. The affair had been going on for two years, but my brother feels really bad about it now that she found out. He misses her so much, and he just wants her to understand that this whole thing is not his fault. Is she going to come back to him?
13. I would like to be a Satanist. What’s the proper way to sacrifice a baby to the Tarot?
14. Please give the exact date and time that I will get a new job in my field with a minimum salary of $120,000, and describe the Starbucks beverage I will have in my hand when I get the call from my new employer. I demand that you know the exact temperature, in degrees Celsius, of said Starbucks beverage.
15. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, MAN, I DON’T CARE WHAT THE CARDS SAY! I AM WILLING TO GIVE YOU MY MONEY IF YOU WILL PLEASE JUST TELL ME THAT MY BOYFRIENDย IS THE ONE.
That sums it up beautifully! Thank you for the tongue in cheek release of my frustrations without incinerating the questions or the querent….
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OMGerd…you’ve sat in on my sessions too! Gah!
I don’t care how *silly* you were feeling when you wrote this; it’s the damn truth!
Kat
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Ha! But where is the lie?
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Yes, but is he โขtheโข one? And btw, I’m totally psychic and I knew you were going to say that.
๐ great post
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Thank you!
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Just a few of the reasons social media needs a “face palm ” imogee
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“The one”. What does that even mean?
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“6. My friendโs half Gypsy and three-seventeenths Native American, and she says thereโs a curse on me because of my ex-girlfriendโs karma from a past life where we were both jackrabbits. Can you tell me how to remove the curse?” Hilarious!!! And, is he the one, PLEASE TELL ME!!!!
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I’m glad you liked that one. It was one of my favorites, and I sat cackling quietly to myself for several minutes after I typed it.
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It is so bizarre the constructs people construct (pardon the redundancy) for themselves and others. It really is hilarious.
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Reblogged this on Moon In Selene and commented:
I don’t know why I can’t stop laughing, since this is absolutely true and not funny. ๐
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Number 4. If I had a penny for every time…
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I love it! I was trained to only ask very general, open-ended questions and the super specific or fortune-telling questions I sometimes hear drive me up the wall. Reminds me of the fortuneteller episode in the Avatar: the Last Airbender series.
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Brilliant as always ! ๐
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Ha-ha, so TRUE. I get ” What do you mean it looks like a toxic co-dependent relationship? Is he the one or isnโt he?” all the time. Great post ๐
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I love it! I’d like to add one I recently had pop up – “Is my boyfriend cheating on me, how many times and with whom” (with boyfriend sitting next to her as she is getting her cards read….)
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OMG THIS IS SO FUNNY! ๐ Haha! Seriously… I just recently had a couple of people messaging me many times for “pleeease, just a TINY reading for free, please?! I really have to know if he is my soulmate and if we will be together! He dumped me a couple of years ago, but I must know, DOES HE LOVE ME?” and all I can think is “Oh honey, I don’t need any cards to tell you that he does NOT love you.” ๐ฆ It’s quite frustrating lol
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I think this has probably been the worst to date… My husband who is my soulmate left me over a year ago to live with another woman. I’ve been buying spells to bring him back, will the latest love spell be successful?
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I really like your post, it made my day burst with laughter, especially question no.15 , thank you!
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Yeah, your clients aren’t too demanding. lol.
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But seriously, its frustrating when people are super focussed on an outcome. It’s like they’re not hearing the message of the cards.
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